Best ball gags are available over here at UK Adult Zone but let’s take a closer look at what makes a good ball gag.
When we think of bondage and BDSM we usually think of rope, handcuffs, and deliciously sexy hitting implements. Gagging – in my experience – is often a bit of an afterthought. Why is that? Perhaps because we’ve all had it hammered home that BDSM should come with a safeword, and so a gag could get in the way of that. In reality, though, there are many more ways to indicate ‘stop’ than just shouting ‘red!’ or ‘kerfuffle!’ or whatever your chosen word is.
Let’s start with that, because it’s so important: if you’re engaging in gagged bondage, you’ll need something a little easier as your ‘stop’ sign than a safeword. In the past I’ve had people hand me something that I can grip onto, so they know when I drop it I want out. Alternatively, if your hands are free or visible, you can have a hand signal that means ‘stop’ – this one’s only if your partner’s good at concentration, though. You don’t want to risk doing the signal (clicking your fingers or whatnot) and having them too involved in the action to notice.
So, with that out of the way, let’s have a look at some of the best gags you can use if you fancy having a go at this.
Ball Gag
When considering the best ball gags, we need to start with the peoples choice. These are the most common, and one of the most loved. The ball goes in your mouth and fills it up, leaving just a nice gap either side so you drool slightly through it. I know, it sounds like bad manners, but guys I have been with have loved this aspect of the ball gag best of all. If you want to pick one up, you might like to start with this Fetish Fantasy Ball Gag training kit which comes with balls of a few different sizes so you can find the best one for you. For a bit more flexibility, you can get an inflatable ball gag, which has the added benefit that you can change size depending on how hardcore you’re feeling that day.
Dildo Gags
These are gags that strap a silicone dildo into your mouth – giving you something to suck on while everything else is happening. These usually come with shorter cock attachments than your average strap-on or something designed to go inside you, because permanent stimulation of your gag reflex can be… umm… messy. Will they make the best ball gags for your next session?
Fishhook Gags
Rather than stuffing your mouth full, the fishhook gag is there to just spread it wide. It has similar benefits to the ball gags in that it makes you look deliciously vulnerable, and it has the added benefit that it gives your top easy access to your mouth. These are easier to use with safewords, because you can still (sort of) speak through them. However, if your safeword is ‘a bottle o beer’ then you may well struggle. Best to have a backup, to be on the safe side.
Spider Gags and Open Mouth Gags
Don’t be frightened! This does look like the most extreme gag but used properly it should still be comfortable enough that you can use it for a fun session without your eyes watering. If the spider gag looks a bit too extreme for you, then the open-mouth gag is a slightly less intense version. Both are designed to hold your mouth open so your partner can do what they like with you. I’ll leave that to your imagination…
So, What are the Best Ball Gags
I’m going to cheat a bit here as I answer the question and say: all of then. I’m serious – if you love gagging then I suspect almost any of these could easily float your boat. My personal favourite are the open-mouth gags, just because they leave me in a deliciously vulnerable position and mean I get one of the submissive things I love the most (one word: spit). But for you the thrill might be in the muffled noises you can make behind a ball gag or the humiliation of being stretched and made to feel ridiculous in a fishhook gag.
I can tell you which is best for me, but I can’t give you an overall winner: it’s way more fun if you find out for yourself.