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Hot Weather Sex

Hot weather sex can be tiring, sweaty and uncomfortable but sometimes we just gotta do it. We took a look at a few of the best hot weather sex positions you can try. We selected these as our favourites and the ones we feel might be just that little bit more comfortable during this hot spell.

Sweaty Spooning Perfect for Hot Weather Sex

The spoons position has long been a favourite with loving couples but have you ever tried that on a one night stand? You would be surprised how many have attempted this one.

Spooning is not an obvious choice if you get lucky with a date but when the sun is shining and the nights are muggy, this one can prove a winner.

To get to it, just lie on your side with your lady pushing her butt into. This is lazy, hot sex. Perfect for the summer months.

Shower Chills

Before you get all kinky on me, I am not referring to a “golden shower”!

Although, thinking about it, that could cool you down too.

STOP!

Back to the main event. What I am referring to here is getting yourself into a shower. Yes, things could get heady and erotic with your escort date. If you do strike it lucky then ending up in a shower cubicle on a hot date could be just the trick.

It’s not easy to get totally turned on with two sticky, hot bodies. The brain can often be distracted by the heat. A shower moment could be just the trick.

Crack the Ice

Ice is another favourite during the hot season. Get yourself some kinky thrills by using ice cubes on the body to cool it down. This gives you the time to enjoy her body.

If you are looking to get a little messy, open up that tube of ice cream or make use of that 99 ice cream cone with the luxurious flake!

Outdoor Sex

For all you outdoor fanatics, this is a great time of year. Whether you are dogging or just having some fun in a field, outdoor sex can be cool. Be sure to prepare the ground. Get yourself dressed in loose clothing. Look for something that comes on and off fast. That way, if you do get disturbed, you can quickly react.

Unless you know your partner well, you might find that she or he is not willing to work with you outdoors. So, it is worth spending time to build a rapport. When you find a special someone you have cultivated a gem. Trust is key. That comes with time and respect. The end result is worth it.

Whatever you choose to do this summer, make sure you stay safe.

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Why men get hard in the morning

Alright, let’s unravel the mystery behind that salute-at-sunrise, the good ol’ “morning glory”! Ever woken up feeling rather… attentive downstairs and wondered what cosmic force is at play? Well, you’re not alone! This phenomenon, officially known as nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT), is basically your body throwing spontaneous erection parties while you sleep or just as you’re waking up. Pretty much every bloke without erectile issues gets these visitors, usually about three to five times a night. And get this – it starts way back, like, in the womb (seriously!), and keeps going throughout life. Ladies, you’re not entirely left out either; similar sleepy-time clitoral erections and engorgement happen for you too, and even Fido might get in on the NPT action!

So, how does this biological tent-pitching happen? While scientists are still scratching their heads over the exact why, they’ve got some pretty good ideas about the how. It seems strongly linked to REM sleep – that’s the phase when you’re dreaming up wild scenarios. One cool theory suggests that certain brain cells acting like ‘chill-out’ signals for your penis (specifically, noradrenergic cells) basically switch off during REM sleep. When these inhibitory signals take a break, the testosterone-driven ‘go-go-go’ signals get their moment to shine, resulting in liftoff!

Another popular idea involves a nifty molecule called nitric oxide (NO). Think of NO as the ultimate smooth-talker for your blood vessels. During REM sleep, your brain might trigger nerves to release NO, which tells the smooth muscles down there to relax. Relaxed muscles mean dilated blood vessels, which means whoosh – increased blood flow rushes in, and hello erection! This whole process also seems to be buddy-buddy with hormones like testosterone. So yeah, your brain’s doing some complex sleepy-time chemistry!

But why does your body bother with all this nocturnal mischief? What’s the point? Well, one leading theory is that it’s all about keeping your equipment in top working order! These sleepy erections cause the spongy erectile tissues (fancy name: corpora cavernosa) to swell up with blood, bringing in a fresh delivery of oxygen. It’s like a workout for your junk, helping to keep the tissue healthy, flexible, and fighting fit, potentially warding off conditions like cavernous fibrosis that could lead to erectile dysfunction down the line. So, basically, it’s your body’s built-in maintenance program!

There was another quirky theory floating around that suggested morning wood was nature’s way of preventing accidental midnight P-breaks. The idea was that a full bladder might trigger a reflex erection (the kind that happens without sexy thoughts), making it physically difficult to pee while horizontal. Plausible? Maybe. Likely? Probably not. Your body has smarter ways to keep the bed dry, and besides, this doesn’t explain why women, who don’t get the same plumbing obstruction, aren’t constantly having nocturnal accidents!

So, the most likely story? All that nighttime activity is simply helping to keep your crown jewels healthy, oxygenated, and ready for action when you decide it’s go-time. Think of it as your loyal soldier diligently performing its drills! Be proud of that morning salute – it’s looking out for you!

And hey, if you’re looking to enhance that daytime readiness and be harder for longer, why not check out the latest gear designed to help? Explore goodies like Penis Pumps, Cock Rings, and Penis Extensions. Get started on your journey to peak performance today!

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No sex please, I’m tired!

No sex I'm tired

Whether it’s your career, your kids or both that’sgetting in the way of you feeling sexy, don’t despair – you really can have it all!

The key is time management. So you’re prepared for that important meeting, you know what day the kid’s need their PE kit and what you need to get for your friend coming over for dinner. So why is it, that sex seems to be last on your priority list? We all know that the more we have sex, the more we want it. So it stands to reason that if we don’t treat it as a priority and find we are too tired by the end of the day, we are sure to find ourselves in a never ending spiral of being too tired and lacking desire.

As unsexy as it may sound you need to set time aside for you and you partner to have time together with no distractions. If you have kids, get a babysitter, if you find it difficult to get away from work, turn your phone off. You need time to remember why you fell in love with your partner in the first place and enjoy them as a person and not as a parent or house mate.

Set the scene. Clear away any toys, nappies, washing that may be ordinary scenery. Replace with candles, rose petals and spray the air or sheets with something nice. Scenery also includes you! So make an effort. Indulge in some sexy lingerie if you’re a lady and if you’re a guy then splash on the aftershave. Feeling confident with how you look will help you to feel sexy later as well as being a great tease.

If one or both of you is stressed, erotic massage is a great way to start things off. Not only is it ideal for relaxing you, it increases intimacy between you and your partner and awakens senses that may be suppressed. The Romantic Massage Kit has all you need as well as a booklet with massage tips included.

If you’re in a rut and want to spice things up, why not try some soft bondage? Blindfolds are a great way to build anticipation, when our sight is taken away, our other senses kick in to compensate. Try teasing with a feather tickler or using silk ties to tie them up so they’re at your mercy!

Sex toys are another great way to keep things interesting. And it’s not just the using. If you shop online, you can do it in the comfort of your own home and the choosing and the waiting for delivery can be just as fun. The key is to choose something together and be open about what you desire. Who knows? You may find something new about your partner that you didn’t know!

If one or both of you are really lacking desire I would advise a trip to the doctor to make sure that nothing is seriously wrong. However there are herbal aphrodisiacs you can try as well as lotions, creams and sprays to get things going.

Although it can be overlooked, keeping your relationship strong and healthy will in turn keep everything else in check. When you feel loved and valued by a partner your desire to work together and look after each other is stronger.

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Sex Toys Trends Uncovered

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Sex toys trends are all about the tech. When it comes to getting a buzz from your personal play,  there’s an app for that! From robots to bluetooth to drones, the tech sex industry is on fire.

Let’s take a look at some exciting sex toy trends that you can get your hands on right now and look at some of the latest trends in the world of sex and pleasure. The AskMen sex 100 takes us through some products and trends that I would like to share with you right here and now.

Product: Tenga eggs

I’m delighted to see these on anyone’s list of ‘sex toys for 2017’, because although they’ve been around for a while, Tenga eggs are still not as widely known as they should be. To my mind, if you have a dick you should also have a go with a Tenga egg. They’re small, portable, textured masturbators that come with individual sachets of lube – so you’re good to go as soon as you get the delivery. They are lighter and easier to use than some of the larger masturbators like Fleshlight, so make a perfect addition to your ‘travel sex’ collection.

Trend: Edging

This is apparently a new trend, which would probably come as a surprise to some of the gentlemen I’ve had sex with. Edging – the practice of bringing yourself to just the ‘edge’ of orgasm, then stopping just before you come – is something I’ve always enjoyed watching guys do. It’s just hot seeing the moment right before they tip over the edge, and the build-up of frustration. If you’ve never tried it yourself, I’m told it’s very fun. I just can’t quite manage it myself because I am too impatient for orgasm.

Trend: Group sex

I don’t need to tell you much here other than that ‘group sex’ is apparently a new trend. I mean, surely group sex has been pretty popular for a while, no? I seem to remember the Romans having a fair amount of orgiastic fun. Still, if it’s getting more popular, that means there must be more people out there who are willing to dive into a group situation, so if orgies are on your bucket list then maybe have a go at making one happen in 2017.

Product: Dildo drone

OK, I may have teased you ever so slightly with this one – the dildo drone doesn’t actually exist. Yet. But imagine all the things you could do by strapping your favourite dildo onto a remote-controlled drone? You’ve effectively created a helicopter that can be fine-tuned to hump you from above.

Just make sure you keep your important bits away from the rotor blades. Eek.

Trend: FreeTheNipple

You may have missed this campaign in 2016, but you’ll probably be seeing much more of it this year. As a response to social media platforms censoring female, but not male nipples, lots of people have been kicking up a storm under the ‘ #FreeTheNipple’ hashtag. And rightly so – why should one nipple be banned but another not? In response to the seemingly sexist and arbitrary rules, accounts like @genderless_nipples are trying to challenge the reasoning behind these rules by posting pictures of just nipples – with no way of telling whether the nipple belongs to a guy or a girl. Excellent work, and not just because it’s a great excuse to look at a wide variety of nipples. Want to get your nipples out in 2017? Pick up some lovely lingerie, or simply strip it all off. Be careful where you post the pics though…

Trend: Butt stuff

I’ve saved my favourite for last, although you can check out everything in the top sex 100 here. ‘Butt stuff’ comes in at number 12 on the list, and it very much deserves to be at the top. Not only because butt stuff (whether it’s prostate massage, butt plugs, pegging or anything else) is fun, but also because I think more people are becoming comfortable exploring their own anal desires. With each year that goes by, more people find my sex blog by searching ‘butt plug tips’ or ‘how do I do anal?’, and I think that’s only going to continue. So if you haven’t tried it yet but you’re tempted, go pick up a slim ‘starter’ butt plug and get 2017 off to a… umm… cracking start.

Sorry. I just couldn’t resist a butt pun.

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Best Ball Gags Are Bondage Kit Essentials

Best ball gags are available over here at UK Adult Zone but let’s take a closer look at what makes a good ball gag.

When we think of bondage and BDSM we usually think of rope, handcuffs, and deliciously sexy hitting implements. Gagging – in my experience – is often a bit of an afterthought. Why is that? Perhaps because we’ve all had it hammered home that BDSM should come with a safeword, and so a gag could get in the way of that. In reality, though, there are many more ways to indicate ‘stop’ than just shouting ‘red!’ or ‘kerfuffle!’ or whatever your chosen word is.

Let’s start with that, because it’s so important: if you’re engaging in gagged bondage, you’ll need something a little easier as your ‘stop’ sign than a safeword. In the past I’ve had people hand me something that I can grip onto, so they know when I drop it I want out. Alternatively, if your hands are free or visible, you can have a hand signal that means ‘stop’ – this one’s only if your partner’s good at concentration, though. You don’t want to risk doing the signal (clicking your fingers or whatnot) and having them too involved in the action to notice.

So, with that out of the way, let’s have a look at some of the best gags you can use if you fancy having a go at this.

Ball Gag

When considering the best ball gags, we need to start with the peoples choice. These are the most common, and one of the most loved. The ball goes in your mouth and fills it up, leaving just a nice gap either side so you drool slightly through it. I know, it sounds like bad manners, but guys I have been with have loved this aspect of the ball gag best of all. If you want to pick one up, you might like to start with this Fetish Fantasy Ball Gag training kit which comes with balls of a few different sizes so you can find the best one for you. For a bit more flexibility, you can get an inflatable ball gag, which has the added benefit that you can change size depending on how hardcore you’re feeling that day.

Dildo Gags

These are gags that strap a silicone dildo into your mouth – giving you something to suck on while everything else is happening. These usually come with shorter cock attachments than your average strap-on or something designed to go inside you, because permanent stimulation of your gag reflex can be… umm… messy. Will they make the best ball gags for your next session?

Fishhook Gags

Rather than stuffing your mouth full, the fishhook gag is there to just spread it wide. It has similar benefits to the ball gags in that it makes you look deliciously vulnerable, and it has the added benefit that it gives your top easy access to your mouth. These are easier to use with safewords, because you can still (sort of) speak through them. However, if your safeword is ‘a bottle o beer’ then you may well struggle. Best to have a backup, to be on the safe side.

Spider Gags and Open Mouth Gags

Don’t be frightened! This does look like the most extreme gag but used properly it should still be comfortable enough that you can use it for a fun session without your eyes watering. If the spider gag looks a bit too extreme for you, then the open-mouth gag is a slightly less intense version. Both are designed to hold your mouth open so your partner can do what they like with you. I’ll leave that to your imagination…

So, What are the Best Ball Gags

I’m going to cheat a bit here as I answer the question and say: all of then. I’m serious – if you love gagging then I suspect almost any of these could easily float your boat. My personal favourite are the open-mouth gags, just because they leave me in a deliciously vulnerable position and mean I get one of the submissive things I love the most (one word: spit). But for you the thrill might be in the muffled noises you can make behind a ball gag or the humiliation of being stretched and made to feel ridiculous in a fishhook gag.

I can tell you which is best for me, but I can’t give you an overall winner: it’s way more fun if you find out for yourself.